I think that the psychologist Ung knew secret of women. He has told that in each woman live 2 women : external one and internal one. They is very different. Everyone sees the external woman. She can be a nice woman externally. She is brought up in spirit of a society . She can be kind, tender, human woman . She can be an educated and clever woman . She can be a cold and quiet woman
The internal woman is created with nature. The voice of a nature has a huge force in the woman. The woman frequently does not know her internal woman. She frequently does not know what she is able to do. She sometimes does not know what she wants. The internal woman appears suddenly. She comes as a typhoon. She can be a passionate and vigorous woman. . She can destroy for one minute all that she created all her life.
If the woman understands her internal essence , she has the huge force. If the man understands the internal essence of this woman, he will be happy with her.
The men only think that they rule the women. The woman does only that she wants.
The man should not rule the woman. He should understand the internal woman. He should give to her the feeling of physical and spiritual comfort. Then the woman will go voluntary to the edge of world with him.
But the men frequently are blind. They have the eyes but they see only the external woman. Nice eyes, the long legs,beautiful figure, sweet voice, etc are driving their mad . The men often don’t want or are unable to see an internal woman. This men will be unhappy. The internal woman is more important than the external woman.
Can you tell me about essence of a man? What is a difference of ideas ,feelings and actions between men and women?
Well that is a `tall order` (a complex question)….ie, to understand women (and men).
Let`s get down to basics again. Whenever you wish to understand anything, always try to get down to basics. The basic template!
Why were women created? To have babies of course. That is their prime function. Primitive woman would have had no other function…but to get impregnated, carry a child, give birth, and rear her young (the same as any other animal or primate does).
So nature made her attractive to men (so that men would strongly desire to mate with her). A woman in her `prime` – (round about say 20)….. is a walking `man-magnet`. A bait. The female of all species is made `attractive` just to attract a male to mate with her.
This is why the female sex has many facets – she is – first and foremost – a `mother` before all else.
So what traits should a successful mother have?
She should be `tough` – after all, she has to be strong, to see the upbringing of her offspring to maturity.
She should be `tender` – so that she loves her children and has a natural deep desire to give them tender loving care.
She should be patient – as the rearing of young always requires lasting patience.
So this is a woman`s nature. The fact that the world also gets the benefit of her kindness, gentleness, patience, strength, sexiness etc…is `by the way`. The attributes were given to her by nature to ensure healthy and successful offspring. But the world also benefits from a woman`s nature. Men too – tho her motherly instinces were not for the men, but for the baby.
Soooo – what about men?
Again, look to the basic template.
What are men designed for? What did nature want them to do above all? What is their purpose? Their function.
If a woman`s main purpose is to have babies, then she needs a man to impregnate her.so this is mainly what men were made for (to impregnate women).
So a man (in HIS prime) needs to be sexually virile. He must also have a `working order` injection function/method – this is his penis! He must also `feel` attracted to the female of the species, and `be` attractive to HER .
If male and female did not feel sexually attracted to each other – the human race would die out.
But this is not a man`s sole purpose. Nature intended the man to help the woman raise `their` offspring.
To this purpose he should also be strong ..ie, strong enough to go out and bring home some food – be it a sabre-toothed tiger in prehistoric times, or wages in modern times (modern wages are the equivalent of caveman bringing home some meat)_.
Man should also be aggressive…because for thousands of years he had to protect the woman (protecting his offspring too, via the woman). He was also meant to help to provide some sort of abode for his family.
So a man should be strong, aggressive, patient, ingenious, and brave.
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